Wednesday, December 30, 2009
New Year's REVolutions
The old way of thinking has us putting things on our list like: This year I plan to lose weight. That is a noble goal. We could all stand to lose a few poundages here and there (some of us more here and some of us more there). But there is nothing wrong with the goal. The only problem is that most of us never lose the weight! Our goal in the year 2000 might have been to lose 5 lbs and NOW our goal is to lose 40 lbs (This goal has the potential to get worse as the years roll on). So what does that mean??? That means we get to use it for the same goal for the next year! That is awesome!
We also put things on our goal-list like: I will give more to those in need (be it time, money, advice... whatever). This goal also has merit. The only problem is that the longer we are in this world the more we find out that WE are the ones that need the time. We are the ones that need the money. And we certainly are the ones that need the advice (I fall into all 3 of those categories). That makes for another goal to be passed down to next year's resolutions.
We also get to use the goal that we plan to save/spend our money wisely. This one is important. But we all have different definitions of "wisely". To some of us, wisely mean spending money on a more fuel efficient vehicle to save more money at the pump. To others, wisely mean spending more money on a 52" Flat-Panel Sony 1080p HDTV so they can watch Desperate Housew.... I mean... FOOTBALL. **Ahem** Football. Alas... the goal is a good goal but how do you know when you have met this goal? I guess your definition of "wisely" will determine if/when this goal can be checked off the list.
There are hundreds of more resolutions, but as you have read just a few of these you will notice a trend. We all seem to keep putting the same things over and over in our resolutions. Well, the time to change is NOW! I am calling for a paradigm (HA! I didn't have to use spell checker on this one. I did, however, have to use the dictionary though to make sure it's the word I wanted to use) shift! We need to stop this tradition of cutting and pasting resolutions from one year to the next! Let's bury those traditions and lists like I did all of my 80s Afro pics (they weren't pretty. And don't tell my mother. She still thinks I "borrowed" them to preserve them in a digital format. SUCKER!!... Don't tell her I said that either. Remember this post?).
My crazy plan is that from now on we stop creating a forgettable To-Do list for the following year and we start creating an interesting To-DID list for the year that is ending. Instead of recycling those good intentions lists for the next year we should start a list of all of the things we actually accomplished THIS year. This will change the success rate of the lists. Since most of us fail horribly on our resolutions this would be a way to see a list of 100% success. To me, It would be much more rewarding.
So, at the time of writing this you have 2 days to answer the question: What did I complete this past year? And your list is due Dec 31st at 11:59PM (odds say the due date should be earlier because as the clock winds down on the year the chances of doing something productive goes down as well. Just call me around 11:00PM on the 31st for case and point).
For some of you this whole change is too last minute. There's just too much to accomplish in such a short amount of time. Don't worry. We can make an exception in your case. Just make it your New Year's Resolution for 2010. That way it will SURELY get done! Just add it to the list right below losing weight, or stop smoking, or get a better paying job, or to stop watching too much TV (minus Desperate Housewives), or to read more books... You get the picture.
(Excuse me for a moment while I add this to my 2010 New Year's Resolutions. I spent too much time writing this into my blog. I will have to opt for the exception as well.)